35 Years of Milestones – Julianne and David

Kravetz35SplashI never dreamed that someday I might be part of something bigger than me
It makes me feel humble, finally I see….All that we have is each other
And that’s all that I’ll ever need”  — Joe Walsh, “Family” from his Analog CD

As the week-long celebration of my 35 years with Julianne comes to an end, I would like to close out with a broad-brush overview of our wonderful 35 year journey (thus far!).  Yesterday I posted a video that our daughter Marissa compiled that includes dozens of photos from this 35 year journey.  If you have not yet seen it, here is the link to that post. We are really no different than any other couple with 35 years behind them.  So much can happen.  This is a look back out our journey together.

David and Julianne in Provo, UT February 1979

David and Julianne in Provo, UT February 1979

When I look back on my family’s growth and the milestones achieved over a period of 35 years, I really realize that so much has happened.  It has been an amazing ride so far! Here are a number of highlights from our 35 years (coupled with photos when appropriate):

David and Julianne Wedding Photo July 1979

David and Julianne Wedding Photo July 1979

From 1979 to 2014:

Kravetz Family ca. 1991, taken in Oita, Japan

Kravetz Family ca. 1991, taken in Oita, Japan

Family 2009

Family 2009

Kravetz Family Group photo with grandchildren and some family members

Kravetz Family Group photo with grandchildren and some family members – 2012

We had 5 children

David (Grampz) with all 9 grandchildren on Christmas Day 2012

David (Grampz) with all 9 grandchildren on Christmas Day 2012

A Kravetz four generation photo - Seth, Rockwell, David, Joe - 2012

A Kravetz four generation photo – Seth, Rockwell, David, Joe – 2012

We had 9 grandchildren

3 of our children served LDS (Mormon) Missions

Amaree on her Mission in Japan

Amaree on her Mission in Japan

o Amaree to Nagoya Japan: January 2001 – July 2002

Marissa on her mission in Thailand

Marissa on her mission in Thailand

o Marissa to Bangkok Thailand: September 2002 – February 2004

Seth on his mission in Salt Lake City South area with his companion -- Tall and Short..

Seth on his mission in Salt Lake City South area with his companion — Tall and Short..

o Seth to Salt Lake City South: October 2006 to October 2008

Both of our boys attained Eagle Scout

Seth at his Eagle Court of Honor

Seth at his Eagle Court of Honor

o Seth in March 2005

Solomon at his Eagle Court of Honor

Solomon at his Eagle Court of Honor

o Solomon in June 2007

We have lived in 18 locations (including 2 extended motel stays while looking for housing and 3 extended work-related stays for David)

o An apartment in Provo, UT

Our first rental house in Flagstaff, AZ ca 1980

Our first rental house in Flagstaff, AZ ca 1980

o 2 Houses in Flagstaff, AZ
o Married Student Housing at NAU in Flagstaff
o 2 Houses and an apartment in Mesa, AZ
o 1 Apartment in Tempe, AZ

Apartments in Oita.  We lived on the 5th Floor

Apartments in Oita. We lived on the 5th Floor

o 2 Apartments in Oita, Japan

House in Frankfort, KY

House in Frankfort, KY

o 1 House in Frankfort, KY

House in Nicholasville

House in Nicholasville

o 1 House in Nicholasville, KY

House on Stanford Dr. in Lexington

House on Stanford Dr. in Lexington – notice our old Aerostar Van

Our current home in Lexington, KY

Our current home in Lexington, KY

o 2 Houses in Lexington, KY
o 1 Apartment in Louisville, KY (David only on extended work contract – 8 months)
o 1 Hotel in Woodstock, ON (David only on extended work contract – 4 months)

Apartment in Paris, Ontario

Apartment in Paris, Ontario

o 1 Apartment in Paris, ON (David only on extended work contract – 4 months)
o 1 Hotel in Cebu, Philippines (David only on extended work – 8 weeks)

We had three college graduates (including David)

Graduation with Bachelors from Northern Arizona University - 1984

Graduation with Bachelors from Northern Arizona University – 1984

o David graduated with a Bachelor’s Degree from Northern Arizona University (History/Geography/Asian Studies) and then a Master’s Degree from Arizona State University (Political Science/Asian Studies)

Amaree graduation from University of Kentucky

Amaree graduation from University of Kentucky

o Amaree graduated from University of Kentucky (Music Education)

Seth graduation from University of Kentucky

Seth graduation from University of Kentucky

o Seth graduated from University of Kentucky (Engineering)

We have traveled to 6 foreign countries (collectively)

Family visiting Usa Shrine in Japan in 1990

Family visiting Usa Shrine in Japan in 1990

David and Julianne in Kyoto with David's father

David and Julianne in Kyoto with David’s father

o Oita, Japan (lived in Oita, Japan for 4 ½ years)
o Seoul, South Korea (both went through and stayed overnight on flights)
o Suzhou, China (David spent two weeks on business)

David at "Screaming Heads" in Berks Falls, Ontario 2008

David at “Screaming Heads” in Berks Falls, Ontario 2008

o Ontario, Canada and Cardston, Alberta, Canada (Julianne visited 2 times and David spent 8 months working in Ontario)

David and Julianne in Tulum, Mexico

David and Julianne in Tulum, Mexico

o Cozumel, Mexico (David and Julianne took a cruise to Cozumel and visited Tulum)

David on a Jeepney in Cebu, Philippines in 2007

David on a Jeepney in Cebu, Philippines in 2007

o Cebu, Philippines (David took two trips and spent a total of 8 weeks in Cebu)

We have traveled all over the United States

Julianne and I, along with our family have been blessed to have traveled all over the United States, from Catalina Island off the coast of California, to Hilton Head Island in South Carolina, from the Great Lakes in Michigan and Ohio to the Mississippi Delta in New Orleans.  We have traversed the Rocky Mountains, crossed the southern deserts, visited the southeast in Georgia and been to New York. The family has been to 20 or more National Parks and Monuments over the years, has visited the Statue of Liberty, the St. Louis Arch and Mt. Rushmore.  We visited Hawaii as a family in 1990 and Julianne and I took a cruise to Alaska in 2004. Marissa spent a summer in France and Amaree toured Europe with a choir. Seth and Holly have visited England and Scotland. These experiences have broadened the horizons of all of us! We have since included grandchildren in many of these trips.

Family in Monument Valley 1993

Family in Monument Valley 1993

Visiting Jamestown, Virginia in 1995

Visiting Jamestown, Virginia in 1995

Visiting the St. Louis Arch in 1997

Visiting the St. Louis Arch in 1997 (with Barbara Grandvoinet from France)

Visiting the Museum in Chicago to see the T-Rex 1994

Visiting the Museum in Chicago to see the T-Rex 1996

Solomon, Marissa and Seth at Glacier National Park in 2005

Solomon, Marissa and Seth at Glacier National Park in 2005

Marissa and her daughter Joselyn at White Sands National Monument in New Mexico

Marissa and her daughter Joselyn at White Sands National Monument in New Mexico in 2011

David and granddaughter Autumn in Rhinelander, Wisconsin 2012

David and granddaughter Autumn in Rhinelander, Wisconsin 2012

Chelsea and Solomon with David's sister Sherry in New York City 1998

Chelsea and Solomon with David’s sister Sherry in New York City 1998

We have celebrated the weddings of four of our children (including 3 daughters’ weddings within a 6 week span in 2005)

All three girls married in 2005

All three girls married in 2005

Dad and three married daughters June 2005

Dad and three married daughters June 2005

Chelsea on her wedding day in May 2005

Chelsea on her wedding day in May 2005

o Chelsea married in May 2005

Amaree and Aaron June 18, 2005 in Cardston, Alberta

Amaree and Aaron June 18, 2005 in Cardston, Alberta

o Amaree married Aaron Matthews in June 2005

Marissa and Adam June 25, 2005 Louisville, KY

Marissa and Adam June 25, 2005 Louisville, KY

o Marissa married Adam Noe in June 2005

Seth and Holly wed in June 2009

Seth and Holly wed in December 2009

o Seth married Holly Walker in December 2009

So much more happened over the years.  We had an exchange student from France, Barbara Grandvoinet, who home-stayed with us for about 6 months and then came back for two other shorter visits. She has gone on to become a documentary film producer and we are so proud of her. We also hosted a well known Japanese sculptor/ceramicist, Yukio Yamamoto (from Himeji, Japan), in the 1980s when he came to Arizona.  He and his wife stayed with us for a few weeks and we were instrumental in assisting Yukio in building an ancient style Tozan kiln at my alma mater Northern Arizona University in 1985 (see article here – they misspelled my name…). Yukio passed away a few years ago.

Yukio Yamamoto and wife with some of Julianne's family at the Falls of the Little Colorado river in Northern Arizona in 1985

Yukio Yamamoto and wife with some of Julianne’s family at the Falls of the Little Colorado river in Northern Arizona in 1985

There is now a shrine to Yukio at NAU.

Yukio Yamamoto shrine and museum at Northern Arizona University

Yukio Yamamoto shrine and museum at Northern Arizona University

Barbara with Solomon and Marissa at New River Gorge, WV in Aug 1995

Barbara with Solomon and Marissa at New River Gorge, WV in Aug 1995

There is so much more that has enriched our lives over these years.  Many of the children participated in commercial video shoots in Japan (and David was in a national TV Commercial).

Chelsea in a Tokiwa Department Store Ad in 1990. Her photo hung all over the store for weeks.

Chelsea in a Tokiwa Department Store Ad in 1990. Her photo hung all over the store for weeks.

Seth in a Fukuoka, Japan Department Store Ad in 1990

Seth in a Fukuoka, Japan Department Store Ad in 1990

David in a National Ad Campaign for Asahi Solar in Japan, ca 1992

David in a National Ad Campaign for Asahi Solar in Japan, ca 1992

Indeed, this 35 years has been amazing!  I am looking forward to my 50th in 15 years!!

David and Julianne 1979 in Monument Valley

David and Julianne 1979 in Monument Valley

David and Julianne in Japan 1990

David and Julianne in Japan 1990

David and Julianne at Corn Palace in South Dakota in 2012

David and Julianne at Corn Palace in South Dakota in 2012

Cheering on UK in 2013 NCAA Championship Game

Cheering on UK in 2013 NCAA Championship Game

David and Julianne - 25 wonderful years together

David and Julianne – 35 wonderfully fun and amazing years together

Synchronicity on a Saturday Night: UK Basketball & Antsy McClain

UK and Antsy McClain

UK and Antsy McClain

This is a true story of unusual events that happened on April 5, 2014. I take no real meaning from it, but there were notable coincidences that make for a fun story. Indeed, Synchronicity was there.

SynchronicitySynchronicity is the experience of two or more events as meaningfully related, where they are unlikely to be causally related. The subject sees it as a meaningful coincidence. The concept of synchronicity was first described by Carl Jung, a Swiss psychologist, in the 1920s. I find synchronicity daily as I say words that happen to be said at the same time on the radio…happens ALL the time!!

Synchronicity2

Synchronicity Theory

Jung believed that many experiences that are coincidences due to chance in terms of causality suggested the manifestation of parallel events or circumstances in terms of meaning, reflecting this governing dynamic.

Before I tell about this synchronicity, I feel I should provide a few pieces of background about all this.

1. I have cheered on Kentucky basketball for many years, but have not really ever been a true “blue-blooded” fan. Rather, I have been more of a BYU fan for various reasons.

2. I first met Antsy McClain in 1993. We worked side by side in Shelbyville, KY at a Japanese auto parts manufacturer as Japanese interpreters.

3. I am not originally from Kentucky, but my step mother had ancestral roots here, which I later learned after doing genealogy upon arrival in Kentucky.

4. All of my children graduated high school in Kentucky.

5. I have two children that graduated from UK.

6. My college professor/mentor at Arizona State University graduated from UK.

7. My wife recently was hired to a position at UK

8. Antsy McClain went to UK

9. I have worked and, at times, traveled with Antsy McClain and his music interests in varying capacities over the past 20 years.

10. My real passions in life are travel, music (especially Antsy McClain) and my grandchildren. I love sports as well, but they rank lower on the “passion scale.”

UK FlagThese things being said, I do get excited when UK gets into the Sweet Sixteen and, like the majority of Lexingtonians, I do get caught up in March Madness. (For an example of how “Mad” and “Crazy”, see this article on Couch Burning in Lexington). Indeed, I was really excited to see that UK would play in the final four beginning on April 5.

Antsy McClain

Antsy McClain

However, on April 5 I had other plans. For a few months I have been planning to go to the Cincinnati area to see Antsy McClain performing a concert with a band comprised of some other individuals I know well (Pauly Zarb and Pat Kirtley).

Lunch with my wife Julianne in Cincinnati on Antsy Day / Game Day

Lunch with my wife Julianne in Cincinnati on Antsy Day / Game Day

So on Saturday morning my wife and I ventured to Cincinnati, had a good time seeing if you sites and then headed northwest to the small town of Harrison, Ohio to see Antsy and the Trailer Park Troubadours perform at the Martin Marietta Center at Harrison High School. But, I did as any real UK fan would do, I wore a UK hat and UK shirt to the show to promote my support for them in the final four against Wisconsin.

Hanging with Antsy before the show, in my UK gear

Hanging with Antsy before the show, in my UK gear

Upon arrival, there were a few people that noticed my UK outfit and asked if I was not at the wrong venue? Of course, I am more of a Pink Blooded (as in Flamingohead) Antsy fan. And my opportunities to see my close friend perform are few and far between.

Sumoflam with good Aussie mate Pauly Zarb

Sumoflam with good Aussie mate Pauly Zarb

So, with iPhone (and an ESPN app) in hand, we visited with Antsy, Pauly Zarb ( an Australian musician who has performed with Antsy for many years, a former resident of Bardstown and a big UK fan), Chris “Spoonz” Long, the drummer (and a UK fan) and amazing guitarist Pat Kirtley (also from Bardstown and a UK fan). After that we enjoyed a great show ( and monitored the score of the UK/Wisconsin game, which went back and forth).

Sumoflam with fellow Kentuckian and AMAZING guitarist Pat Kirtley

Sumoflam with fellow Kentuckian and AMAZING guitarist Pat Kirtley

The show was fabulous and ended while there was still three minutes left in the UK/Wisconsin game. We hurriedly said our goodbyes to everyone in the green room. Pauly already had the TV turned on to the game.

UK vs. Wisconsin

UK vs. Wisconsin

Julianne and I hustled out to the car and watched the last three minutes in the Harrison High School parking lot. It was so exciting. And with 7 seconds left UK Freshman Aaron Harrison knocked out a three pointer to gain the lead. They stopped Wisconsin on the other end to win and advance to the championship.

Aaron Harrison after scoring the three to drop Wisconsin

Aaron Harrison after scoring the three to drop Wisconsin

It struck me as funny that we were in Harrison, OH and in the Harrison High School parking lot watching Harrison drain a 3 for the win!! Synchronicity!!

Harrison Twins on cover of VYPE Magazine in November 2012

Harrison Twins on cover of VYPE Magazine in November 2012

But the story doesn’t end there. Aaron and his twin brother Andrew were recruited by UK from a high school in Houston. Back in November 2012 they were featured on the cover of VYPE magazine in Houston. I knew this because I manage the websites for VYPE.com and work closely with the Houston group. With the last 3 games the Harrisons have been key to getting the wins. In fact, Aaron Harrison has drained a game winning shot in each of the games. More Synchronicity!!

Harrison Twins at Kentucky

Harrison Twins at Kentucky

So, all of this was melded in the Harrison High School parking lot…Antsy from UK in Harrison while we wore our UK gear and seeing Harrison, who I knew from VYPE, shoot a real game winner! So exciting.

UK Celebrates after victory over Wisconsin in final seconds

UK Celebrates after victory over Wisconsin in final seconds

Then, there is the final fun irony….my son Seth lives in Connecticut and now has the opportunity to wear his UK gear to work in the midst of all these Connecticut folks.

My son Seth and his wife Holly decked out in UK gear.

My son Seth and his wife Holly decked out in UK gear.

Julianne and I are caught up in the madness and look forward to watching the UK / UConn championship game tonight!!  In fact, for today I have even changed my Sumoflam logo….

Sumoflam_head UK

Sumoflam turns blue for UK!!

GO CATS! Go Big Blue!!

And remember…..

Only YOU can prevent couch fires

Only YOU can prevent couch fires

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