In my previous post I wrote about how our forty years is tied to our family and did a montage of photos for each of my first three children, all daughters. Continuing is a collection of photos about our two boys, Seth and Solomon, who came to our family in March 1987 and March 1989.
I was working on my PhD at Arizona State University (which I never completed) when Seth decided to come into our world in March 1987. At that time the three girls were seven, six and four and a half. It was a new experience for us as we actually had children old enough to appreciate the newborn young boy and even, in some respects, assist us with him.
Three sisters started adoring on their little brother Seth almost immediately
Baby Seth was a cutie with red hair that he soon lost.
When Seth was about 5 months old, the family was on its way to Oita, Japan, where we would live from 1987 to late 1991. So, for most of Seth’s early years he was watching Japanese television and getting the Japanese experience (as were the three girls, who made their way into Japanese public schools, learned the language and the culture, etc.)
Shortly after arriving in Japan, Marissa helped Julianne with Seth
It was easier to carry Seth on our back everywhere we went
Seth’s favorite bath place was on our balcony overlooking the Oita River.
And he liked the beach to. This was in Saga-no-Seki, Japan
Like the other kids, Seth was pulled into Japanese ads. He was in a number of them as a blonde baby boy.
Another shot for a different ad in Japan
Japan had a major influence on Seth
Marissa and Seth were captains of a ship in Beppu (at least for a few minutes)
Seth prized his Mickey Mouse wizard doll when in Japan
Finally back in the United States in 1992, Seth was able to get established in American schools and did well.
Seth visiting the Grand Canyon shortly after getting back to the U.S.
Visiting Sunset Crater National Monument near Flagstaff in 1992
Seth became a Jamestown settler for a while in Jamestown settlement Virginia in 1993
Hanging with his sister Amaree in 1992 (celebrating our 13th Anniversary)
Looking dapper in 1994
Seth in elementary school in Nicholasville, KY
Seth the high schooler
We visited a “bodily function” exhibit in St. Louis. Chelsea and Seth seemed to enjoy the Poo to You display
The Giant kid with the Jolly Green Giant in 2004. He accompanied Amaree to Great Falls, Montana when she moved there after graduation from UK
Seth as a football player at Lafayette
Shortly before graduating high school, Seth obtained his Eagle Scout. A proud moment.
Seth at Lafayette High School Graduation
Seth served an LDS mission in Salt Lake City
Seth and Holly Wedding Day in December 2009
Seth was so popular that they named a town after him in West Virginia
Julianne and Sol in 1989 shortly after he was born. This was in Oita, Japan
We were already living in Japan when Solomon decided to join our family. According to Julianne, he was her easiest birth. And, almost instantly he was a hit in Oita. Not many “gaijin” children were born in that part of Japan. So, it was great news for all of us and for many of our Japanese friends.
Solomon had long, fun curly hair
He always had a smile on his face (or so it seemed)
Seth and Solomon pretty much grew up together and were pretty much inseparable until about high school days…
Got a nice shot of Marissa and Solomon at a Japanese cafe around 1991
One of our favorite pics of the two boys together.
Solomon had his favorite toys too. This was at his grandmother’s house in Mesa, AZ
Amaree and Solomon together at some event. That’s Chelsea in the background
Watching the horse events at the Kentucky Horse Park
Solomon and Seth looking nice in their ties
Fishing with Grandpa Bateman in Utah in 1997
Some of the kids, including Solomon at Bowlin’s Akela Flats in southeastern New Mexico December 1999
Seth and Solomon with Marissa in Chicago, just a couple of weeks before she was married
Solomon was always playful
Solomon and Seth giving “Aunt Beula” a kiss after a Trailer Park Troubadours concert
Seth and Solomon were mentored in many ways by University of Kentucky (and later pro) football player Aaron Boone
Solomon really liked hanging out with my friend, former Steppenwolf and Trailer Park Troubadours guitarist Bobby Cochran
Solomon as a football player at Lafayette. As a Senior in 2006 he was named All-City.
Solomon was a tough wrestler as a sophomore. He ended up going to state
Solomon at his Eagle Court of Honor
Both Seth and Solomon were linemen for Lafayette High School’s Generals
Solomon graduation from High School with his lovely mother
Ha! They named a town after Solomon too!
Soon after graduation Solomon made his way to Colorado to work in the Medical Marijuana industry. He has become an expert in growing and prepping medical grade cannabis and is now in Kentucky working on a large hemp facility.
Solomon shows off the Cannabis Cup that he helped his company win in Colorado. He still works with Todd (in the left) growing hemp in Kentucky
We have certainly been blessed with a wonderful family of five children. Tomorrow, I’ll talk about the expansion of our family…our ten wonderful grandchildren. These have extended the joy we have as we approach our 40th anniversary in a few days.
Obviously, there are five other people that have been very involved in most of the forty years of Julianne and my marriage. During the course of our first decade of wedded bliss, we also had the blessing of five wonderful children… We did the girls first gig with Amaree, Marissa and Chelsea. These three were born within 35 months of each other and were all married in a six week period in 2005. Then the boys Seth and Solomon came along in 1987 and 1989, almost exactly 2 years from each other (Well, actually 2 years and 2 days).
In many ways our children grew up with us Julianne and I were married at a young age. We were ready. And we were also ready for children.
All three girls married in 2005
The following shots are of our first three girls as they were growing up. I intentionally did not add anything with brothers. Those will be added in Part 2 tomorrow.
Julianne and David with first daughter Amaree on a winter hike near the San Francisco Peaks, Flagstaff, AZ 1980
Here I am with Amaree as a newborn
I was there at Julianne’s side in Flagstaff, Arizona on that cold winter morning when Amaree was born. Word can never express all of the feelings that went through as I became a 23 year old father. I still get chills when I thing back to the MAJOR event in the life of my wife, myself and our new first child.
As with any parents, we had many hopes and dreams for this sweet little daughter of ours. And, obviously, we had no idea if any other children would come our way. But, we made sure that THIS child was loved beyond measure.
Amaree in Flagstaff ca. 1983
Amaree in front of the San Francisco Peaks near Flagstaff, AZ ca. 1983
Amaree Getting Made Up 1982
Amaree around 1989, taken in Mesa, AZ
Amaree all dressed up nice in the early 1990s
Amaree in an ad in Japan in the early 1990s
Amaree at her high school graduation in June 1998
Amaree and Aaron June 18, 2005 in Cardston, Alberta
Just about 14 months after Amaree was born, we had another cold winter March morning in Flagstaff when our second daughter, Marissa, came along. The feelings of joy I had when Amaree was born were the same for Marissa. No favoritism in joyful feelings!
Marissa baby picture – don’t have many. (Wish I had a better one!)
Dad and two daughters in 1983
Our little family in Flagstaff AZ in 1981
Hiking with Marissa and Amaree at the Grand Canyon
Julianne with Amaree and Marissa in the fall if 1981
Amaree and Marissa were fun sisters (taken in Sedona, AZ)
One of my favorite shots of little Marissa taken at Student Housing in Flagstaff
She is STILL a Supergirl and SuperMom
Marissa getting a swing from her Aunt Laura in Mesa, AZ
Family picture at family reunion in early 1982
Marissa with her friend Rika in Japan in 1987
Posing in Japan
Marissa in Japanese advertisement in 1989
Marissa in High School
Marissa Graduation from High School
Amaree and Marissa hanging out during ther high school days
Marissa reporting that she is going to Thailand to serve an LDS Mission
Marissa at her wedding in Louisville, KY in June 2005, just five days after Amaree’s wedding in Canada
About 18 months after Marissa was born, we had another visitor. Chelsea came into the world on a cold November day in Flagstaff. Joy continued for us as our third daughter entered this world. Couldn’t find any baby pictures, but
Little Chelsea sleeping when she was about 2
I think Chelsea was around 2 in this shot
Julianne and me with our first three…all girls..(L to R) Amaree, Chelsea and Marissa
Chelsea’s 3rd Birthday November 1985
Young sassy Chelsea Dawn — “you WILL NOT spank my little bottom Mom!”
Chelsea was a cutie at age 5 in Japan
One of my all-time favorite pictures of Chelsea taken in August 1987 in Oita, Japan
Three Sisters in Kamiura, Japan around 1989
Chelsea was in many ads in Japan – This one for a large department store
Julianne with the three girls
Chelsea in a kimono in Japan around 1988
Visiting grandma in Arizona
Chelsea in Sedona in 1993
Three Sisters in Monument Valley – July 1993
Chelsea in high school
Chelsea Senior photo
Chelsea’s mischievous look
Dad…QUIT – 1998
Chelsea was also married in 2005, but that didn’t end well. She married Jorge Mendez in 2015 and they are great together. The first photo was one I took of Chelsea on her wedding day in 2005.
Chelsea – wedding shot 2005
Chelsea at her wedding to Jorge in 2015
And finally, to finish off Part 1 — about the girls…
In my previous post, I noted a number of things as they were in 1979 when Julianne got married. It is absolutely amazing how things have changed in these 40 years and how these have had a profound impact on our lives. I know that many of you reading these posts have likely had similar experiences. But, as I try to do this countdown, and as I look back and compare to today, it behooves me to note these impacts.
Obviously, the biggest changes are all technology based. In 1979, we had no internet, let alone, most people didn’t have computers unless they could afford the Atari 400. By the time I began college at Northern Arizona University in the fall of 1980, there were large mainframes in use at the school. The mass use of computers, even mainframes, was still fledgling. By the time I got to my Master’s Program at Arizona State University, the advent of the “Personal Computer” was just beginning. However, it was not until we returned back from Japan in 1991 that the internet was kicking into gear. A company named Quantum Computer Services, run by Steve Case, had created a bulletin board for owners of the Commodore 64 computers. In 1991, Quantum was renamed America Online. By 1993, AOL introduced its own email addresses, a Windows version and provided access to the rest of the brand new internet. Being the tech geek, even back then, I jumped on board of AOL as soon as I was able. My first ever email address was firstname.lastname@example.org
AOL Floppy – 50 hours for free
By 1992, we had moved to Kentucky and I was working for Japanese companies as an interpreter. Then, in late 1993 I was hired to manage a Japanese-owned Horse Farm. The farm got a computer for managing records. By this time I had become proficient in the early Microsoft Office products, which were available for Windows in 1990. In April 1994, Netscape was founded and the first Search Engine/Browser came to being. (Technically, the first one was called WorldWideWeb and was developed in 1990 for the NeXT Computer). Anyway, that revolutionized the world and impacted our lives at a personal level. We could then communicate with family via email, learn new things about the world and find new ways to use our time. I began using Netscape and AltaVista browsers long before Google.
AltaVista Search Engine ca. 1999
It was not until 2004 that Firefox was developed and then, in 2008 Google Chrome came out. (Google was founded in 1998, though the domain name Google.com was registered in September 1997). Google impacts millions of lives every minute of the day in 2019!
Communications technology made advances as well. Though pagers had been around for a number of years, the wide use of them didn’t really hit until the late 1980s. One of my first jobs while in college at Arizona State was in a pager “call center.” Customers would call in to the center and we would send out the messages to pagers. At that time it seemed like a real communications break-through, though pager owners were all fairly well to do…mainly doctors, lawyers and company leaders.
A typical pager from the early 1990s
Along with pagers, the emergence of mobile phones as a consumer product started hitting in the early 1990s. I distinctly remember using a Motorola 3200 for the first time when I was working for a Real Estate Auction company in Phoenix. The owner lent me his. This was in 1992. Back then it was a very expensive toy…but so cool to talk while driving a car. Understandably, like Google, the cell phone revolutionized the world. As for the direct impact on our family…. I believe our very first cell phone was purchased in 1997 or 1998. It was a Motorola Flip Phone. Reminded me of Star Trek! That really helped in communicating with my wife at home.
The first mobile phone I ever used was a Motorola International 3200
The firs cell phone we ever owned was a Motorola Flip Phone
We had our own home computer to connect to AOL and the internet in 1995. It was fun to add software to it. Little could we imagine that 24 years later these would be such a part of our daily lives. I have worked in the Internet-related industry for most of the 21st Century, and particularly since 2010. The typical office worker uses one all day.
This is a sample Bernina shot. I don’t recall which kind Julianne had
Julianne worked at a Quilt Shop for a number of years in Lexington and became a Bernina Sewing Machine trainer. Bernina, like many other companies, had developed computer connectivity and thus took embroidery to a whole new level. Julianne needed a computer at home just to run her machines.
Back to the phones…another breakthrough began around the turn of the 21st Century as cell phones became internet capable. Everyone wanted one. But the explosion didn’t really occur full scale until around 2007 when the iPhone was introduced on June 29, 2007. Julianne and I have actually had iterations of these from the first one to our current iPhone X devices in 2019. And boy how these have changed the world for all of us. Can you imagine living life without a mobile device? I can’t!
First generation iPhone
The iPhones and Android devices of 2019 are so powerful that an entire life can be contained on them. They have access to the internet. They can take and store photos. They become music players..no need for a separate MP3 device (oops, I even skipped over the MP3s and many more applications associated with computers), You can do your banking. You can send messages all around the world. And then there are the selfies.
Julianne and I at the Corn Palace in Mitchell, South Dakota — a typical photo with our cell phone
Taking a selfie with cell phone in 2015. Top was my picture. Bottom was one of me taking it. That is San Francisco in the background
So, in closing, here are a few more things that have happened just because of computers, the internet and cell phones:
The first website was created in 1990
NetMarket became the precursor to Amazon and EBay in 1994
EBay was founded in 1995 (originally as AuctionWeb)
Amazon.com started in 1995 and has revolutionized the world of retail
Wikipedia was started in early 2001
LinkedIn got its start in 2002
Facebook began in 2004
YouTube’s first video was posted on April 23, 2005
Twitter began in 2006
Instagram started in October 2010
WHEW!! And that was just the technology of the Information Age Explosion. Part 3 will look at other great changes.
Julianne’s iPhone has trouble understanding her many times.
One of the big events in a marriage is the purchase of a first home. For Julianne and me, this event took place on June 30, 1999, exactly 20 years ago today. It was, ironically, just a couple of weeks away from our 20th anniversary as well.
Why did it take 20 years? Well, a lot happened in our first 20 years of marriage…college, more college, new jobs, four and a half years in Japan, job searches, months of separation due to jobs, etc. And, of course, the births of five children, etc.
Our house around 2001
I was actually working at Lexmark in 1999 when we got approved for our home in Lexington. It was our fourth residence in Kentucky, counting our rental homes in Frankfort, Nicholasville and Lexington.
Back of the house around 2001 — that’s a shorter Seth in the picture.
The stories this house could tell. All of the life events that took place. All of the joys, challenges, fun, etc. When we moved in, the house was a crowded place with 5 children. But, little by little, they all found their way to their own lives and left Julianne as empty nesters. But, the grandchildren came along and the house enjoyed more celebrations and messes (from the Masso-Destructo Unit — aka grandkidz). Today, there are only three others in our cul-de-sac that were here when we moved in back in 1999. Good neighbors still abound!
Remodeled Kitchen (November 2011)
As the years passed, we have added new paneling, redone the deck, added a room from the garage, remodeled the living room, remodeled the kitchen, added new windows, remodeled the main bathroom, added a half-bathroom, remodeled the upstairs bathroom and more. Like us, the house has changed but has kept us protected through winter ice storms, massive rain storms and the day to day weather ups and downs.
We added a small bathroom with a Japanese-style Caroma toilet…built in place to wash hands. Saves on water and space.
This has always been a place of refuge for our children and family and is most certainly our home. We both love this place.
Our House on June 30, 2019
Always like flowers to look nice
Bigger deck, thanks to our son Seth and his wife Holly a few years ago
The new bathroom – a Julianne triumph in 2019
Added new flooring in November 2011 – African Mahogany
Yes, our house has been a very, very, very fine house for two decades. Thank you.
I have already noted in previous posts that Julianne has many talents. One of those that often goes noticed is her photography talent. As a photographer myself, I truly appreciate the way she captures the world. And no, she doesn’t use a fancy Nikon or Canon. She uses her iPhone to capture the world around her. For this post, I want to make it simple. Following are about 30 pictures that Julianne has taken over the past 10 years. They come from her travels, her hikes, her bike rides and her observations. She captures the world around her in a stunning and wonderful fashion, with just the simplest of equipment. She has “THE EYE.” So, enjoy a trip through Julianne’s lens on the world.
A San Diego Sunset
The Kentucky River
A flower from somewhere
The San Diego LDS Temple
The streets of Little Italy in Cleveland
Losing at Canasta
Horse Farm country from the Legacy Trail in Lexington
A heart leaf from a hike in Kentucky
Another San Diego sunset
Horses and Clouds from the Legacy Trail
The old Kirtland Temple in Kirtland, Ohio
A bridge from a bike trail
A dam picture
A glorious evening on the ocean
Tulips and Daffodils from a farm in northern Washington
Moss covered rock wall from a hike in Kentucky
Boat dock at sunset
Gray’s Arch in Red River Gorge, Kentucky (notice the small people on the right for scale)
Watch out… From Raven’s Run hike in Kentucky
Kentucky River as seen from a hike
Another San Diego sunset. She loves these
The New River Gorge Bridge as seen from across the gorge. In West Virginia
(Author Note: Life continues to be busy. I was once again not be able to add days 26 thru 21, but hope to continue now from Day 20 to Day 1…the last remaining days before our 40th Anniversary on July 15).
Yes, I wrote that correctly — The Merried Life. As our 40th Anniversary approaches, I want this post, representing 20 days before the said date, to show some of the Merry things of married life. Over the past 14,591 days of our marriage (including today), we have had many unique and fun experiences, making life Merry.
The worst thing about these merry events in life is that, in most cases, I don’t have photos. Most of the photos in this post are captured from the internet. I don’t like to use other photos. I prefer my own, but these do get the point across.
Back when we celebrated the first year of our marriage I got one of our photos and glued it to a red plaque and then wrote on top with paint, “Merried Life.” It was meant to represent the joy I had with her in our first year together. The plaque is still around, probably buried in one of our many boxes of memories.
From the beginnings of our marriage, Julianne and I have spent many hours together playing Scrabble. This seems to have been our go to game over the years. In fact, in the earlier years, the statistician geek in me kept a “Scrabble Records” book in which I kept track of all of the scores, the 7 letter words, the high scores, the low scores, the Win/Loss records, etc. In fact, I still have the book in one of my memory boxes! I will have to be honest…Julianne probably leads in the W-L column from all of the years. In recent years I have not kept track, but I will bet it is something like Julianne 1220, David 850. Nowadays, we continue the games but they are online on our mobile devices, so the togetherness, laughs, “you cheated” claims and that kind of fun don’t happen as often.
Murmuration of starlings
One of our laughable memories comes from our first year of marriage, before kids made their arrival. I had come home from one evening from work in Provo. We lived on the second floor of an apartment complex. As I went to the door, I saw something that gave me the chills…it was actually scary. In the distance I saw a bunch of glowing lights in the sky flying in weird formation and thought we were being visited by hundreds of UFOs! No Joke! I called for Julianne and basically scared her as well. Turns out that the real culprit was a murmuration of starlings that had static electricity on them. Living in Kentucky we get to see murmurations of starlings quite a bit. It is an amazing thing to watch. But, I will never forget my UFO birds of Provo from 1979.
The Anniversary Dinner at Red Lobster — unforgettable
Another fun memory of ours goes back to Mesa, Arizona when she and I went out to celebrate our fifth anniversary in 1984. I was a new graduate student at Arizona State University and Julianne was home taking care of children. I wanted to do something really nice to celebrate our fifth anniversary. So, I took her to dinner at Red Lobster… a super, big deal treat for us. We had a splendid and memorable dinner…especially when we got the bill. It was over $40. We cringed. That was a lot of money for us. So, we paid…with some regrets… As we got into the car, Julianne exclaimed, “David, that was too much. Let’s take it back and get a refund.” We didn’t. But, we also did not ever forget this memorable anniversary dinner.
Another thing we have done together over the years was attending symphony concerts. We have not done this as often as we have wanted to (especially Julianne!), but we have still made it to one or two a year. Since Julianne is a talented violinist, this was something important. In Flagstaff, we would see the Flagstaff Symphony. We have seen a number of concerts in Kentucky as well. This is always a time of merriment for us.
Snow Splat in Face
Of course, our children began showing up in 1980 and so our “Merry Times” together soon included the children. Even with these, we have some fun times and memories of things we all did together. Perhaps one of the funniest memories took place one winter morning in Japan in 1990 or 1991. We were all playing in the snow and I was on the sidelines videoing the adventures. The kids all began throwing snowballs as was Julianne. Suddenly, and without warning, I was splattered in the face with a snowball. Right in the eye! I was videoing and got hit good. Seconds later Julianne was laughing so hard, that I couldn’t help but laugh with her. It wasn’t funny for about two seconds. But the timing was impeccable and totally accidental. I wish I could find that video that captured the second I was splatted. Even today we laugh about this story.
Landen Water Gun
Snowballs are not our only fun. The Kravetz family has had some serious water fights. Not talking water balloons here. Talking BUCKETS of water! These have been a staple since the days when our kids were younger in Arizona and have carried on with our grandchildren.
With a deck in our backyard in Kentucky, water fights have gone to new levels and there have been times they have found their way into the house. The more the merrier!!
Family Fun with masks in Japan
We once had an interesting Merry Christmas in Japan, thanks to Julianne. All of the kids got some interesting rubber masks and were able to open them and put them on. I am not sure if the kids remember this merriment, but I certainly do. Julianne’s mask of a guy with a cigar in his mouth (not pictured because she wanted the witch for the photo) was priceless!
I am sure there are more memories out there that I have forgotten. Maybe a second post will find its way in the next few days.
The goofiness and fun-loving nature of both Julianne and I has flowed down to the kids as well. I am always one for grabbing a fun family photo. So, to close out this post, following are some of our more “unique” family shots from years past. And yes, some of them were taken despite complaints by one or more of the participants. But, for the fun of merried family life….. And much of this fun can be directly attributed to the fun creativity of Julianne.
Hanging around at a park in Lexington in the 1998
Thanksgiving at Chelsea’s in 2017
Non-adulting in 2018
The Ends of the Road (Springfield, Illinois at Lincoln Home) — Marissa didn’t like the idea… But, it WAS Julianne’s idea
Tug of war at Indianapolis Children’s Museum
Another park pic from 1998
All gathered together someplace in Texas in December 1999
Masked adventures on KravGirls Night Out in December 2015. # Generations in this pic
All on one lap…in Vernal, Utah
And, we get the grandkids in on it now too. The whole family in prime form – July 2017!
Julianne grew up in Mesa, Arizona. Turns out that her house was notorious for being a haven for “sewer roaches.” This particular breed of cockroach is actually an Oriental cockroach and is the most water-dependent of the roaches. In Arizona they like to hang out in the more moist areas of the desert, breeding in the sewers. Thus the name “sewer roach.”
I first experienced cockroaches when visiting Mesa for the first time when Julianne saw one and asked me to kill it. Easy enough. But there are lots of them and I got tired of killing them. At an early stage in our marriage she made me promise to kill all of the bugs. I vowed to do so and have pretty well kept that promise.
Well, one day, while I was a student at ASU and we were living in Julianne’s parent’s house (they were in South Africa on an LDS Mission), Julianne was in the back taking a shower. Suddenly, I heard her screaming and she was soon running out of the shower wet and naked screaming, “A sewer roach just crawled up my leg!! Get it off!.” It was a horrifying moment for her. We got the roach taken care of and moved on. But, this story has become family lore and our children, having taken the prankster role as they learned from their mother, decided to pull a huge prank a few years ago.
A plastic cockroach that Julianne stuck on a thermostat at Amaree’s house during a Christmas visit a few years ago. This was apparently the real culprit that started the cockroachery.
UPDATE: After speaking with Amaree, apparently, Julianne was the one that started this by putting plastic cockroaches in Aaron’s bed when Aaron (her fiance at the time) was visiting us in Kentucky. So, Amaree and Aaron took the same and stuck a cockroach in the asparagus and Julianne apparently screamed when she saw it. The following is Amaree’s revenge:
Julianne never knows where she will find a cockroach hidden
The real culprits, as we learned later, were Amaree and her family. They had come for a visit from Montana, where they lived at the time, and they brought back an “infestation” with them. Apparently, one of the days, when Julianne was out of the house, they pulled out a bag with dozens of realistic-looking plastic cockroaches, that actually resemble Arizona’s sewer roaches. They commenced to secreting them away in diverse places around the house for Julianne to discover both while they were still visiting and then, for months to come. The “gift that kept on giving” if you will…. Supposedly, there are over 50 of them still hidden around the house…
She runs across the little critters in all sorts of places
In her shoes
In her socks
In her bath salts (notice, this one was in the “Take It Easy” bath salts – how rejuvenating!)
In the bottoms of drinking bottles
She finds handfuls
And even has collected a plateful (Yum!)
So, in 2017, Julianne decided to fight back, bug to bug, by sending cockroach pillows to each of the kids and grandkids. This is what we got back via Facebook:
Amaree now has a pet
Aaron, a sleeping partner
The Noe kids have a Noe Cockroach now
Jorge loves to eat with his…
And so does Rockwell
A whole different meaning to cuddlebug!!
One Christmas we got the perfect book to read to the grandkids:
Yes, a book about a cockroach
And the cockroach fun didn’t stop there. Amaree, in all of her creative cockroachery, found the perfect gift for Julianne’s birthday in 2018. Yes, a cockroach pillow. (I wanted to upload the video from my phone, but it is apparently too big.)
Julianne loves her Cockroach Pillow. Sits proudly on the couch (until guests come by) Blurry because I had to pull it from the video I couldn’t upload
And it like the elusive cockroaches that don’t go away, for Christmas, she got a board game…with, you guessed it, cockroaches.
I guess she will always have bugs in the kitchen…
There are even times that the cockroachery goes to new levels. Julianne got a late mother’s day gift from her daughter Amaree just last week. Just what she needed! Roach Clips!!
Julianne and her new collection of Roach Clips — May 2019
Well, in closing, I would like to add a little cockroachery of my own. Way before the days I met Julianne, this little ditty by Jack Blanchard and Misty Morgan (famous for The Tennessee Birdwalk) was being played on a few radio stations and, most certainly by one of my heroes of the late 1960s, Dr. Demento. Little did I know back then that I would be dealing with cockroachery in my future married years. Enjoy The Cockroach Stomp…
Kill Kill Kill Everybody do the Cockroach Stomp. California, Tennessee, and Louisville, Come on, do the Cockroach Stomp. 1 and 2 and 3 and 4, Stomp your partner on the floor. Squish squish. squish, squish, squish. Find a bug, Make a wish.
In my previous post, I talked about Julianneisms, funny things that Julianne has said over the years, new phrases she has coined and more. In this second part, I will continue, but will focus more on how she changes songs, how she has integrated some into her life and more.
Julianne has always been musical, but, in the form of Julianneisms, she has taken music to a new level of some kind. For this particular post, I did a survey among our children and they have come up with some good ones.
One of Amaree’s photos near her high school graduation
The first comes from when our daughters Amaree and Marissa in high school in Jessamine County. They were in the choir and there was one concert where they were singing a Zulu spiritual titled Siyahamba. The original lyrics go as follows:
Well, that evening Julianne began singing the following and it has almost always become a Christmas tradition for her to “request” that the kids sing it as follows:
“See a ham, banana cookie crackers
See a ham banana cookie crackers”
And thus, we are off on a roll…or at least on crackers.
A Christmas Smile – when she tries to get the kids to sing Silent Night
Speaking of Christmas traditions, Julianne has carried on a traditional “non-tradition” for the family each Christmas. For nearly two decades, at every Christmas she will say
Let’s all gather in a circle and light candles and sing Silent Night
And, like a good tradition, the kids have always kind of done the “Let’s don’t and say we did” kind of thing. So, it has become a traditional non-tradition to not gather in a circle with candles and sing Silent Night at Christmas time. But, we can always expect the request from Julianne to do so.
Taking care of children in Japan. She is with Seth and Marissa here.
Switching gears, Julianne really dislikes any kind of potty humor. But, ironically, in my survey with the kids, our son Seth had this to say…and it is so true…
“You know…I’m now realizing that for a woman so against potty humor, Mom sure talked about poop and butts a lot.”
One song she has sung to the kids since the earliest days of our first child Amaree, is a song that has been around a while. However, it fits in well with her Julianneisms…
“I see your hiney, all white and shiny
If you don’t hide it, I’m gonna bite it.”
And then she went on with another lyric that included the words “I’m gonna chew it.” But alas, as far as I know, Julianne has never bitten or chewed any of the kids’ hineys, despite the 30 some odd years of threats to do so.
Young sassy Chelsea Dawn — “you WILL NOT spank my little bottom Mom!”
But, rhyming away, in a sing-sing fashion, she has also recited the following (which I also posted in the previous post, but am including here in the hiney-loving tradition):
“Spank that bottom! Spank it hard! Spank that little tub of lard! Spank it hard! Spank it fast! Spank that boy right on the ask me no more questions and I’ll tell you more no lies…”
Another “poop” related song Julianne wants to attribute to me. But, you know what, I’ll let her have all of the credit and glory. Having been adults in the 70s, we heard a great deal of music from the famed Swedish group ABBA. One of their songs, Super Trouper, became a regular in our household, especially around diaper changing time. The lyrics of the Julianneismized version go as follows:
All of the grandkids, even Landen, would laugh at the Super Pooper song now
“You’re a Super Pooper, pooping up your panties, pooping all day long…pooping really strong…you’re a super pooper girl (or boy — depending on was doing the Super Pooping).”
Of course, she would then call the kids her ” Poopinstinkin’ ” – another Julianneism dictionary word.
Then came along the age of iPods and music MP3s. With the iPod, Julianne could collect her set of songs. By the early 2000s, Julianne had developed a playlist for cleaning and doing chores. She apparently loves cleaning as the first song was always Fallin’ by Alicia Keys. Just imagine Julianne singing that first “I keep on fallin’ in and out of love with you.” Almost 19 years later she STILL sings this song as she begins her chores.
But Alicia Keys was not the only one. She also popularized a Lady Gaga remake by The Chipmunks and would be caught singing along to Bad Romance…. Yes, I have a video of Julianne singing it, but I also want to live a few years longer. But believe me, it COULD go viral!! Just imagine her singing this….
Julianne and Laura have their own kind of sing-songy Sister Speak. Really…
And finally, in a musical sort of way, whenever Julianne and her sister Laura get together, they kind of have their own “Sister talk” style. It is kind of sing-songy way of talking. They don’t talk that way to others, only to each other. It has been going on for as long as I have known them. Yes, it is peculiar, but, we all create our own mannerisms over the years, and Julianne has her peculiar Julianneisms. That was what makes her special and endearing to all.
All of us have those “little somethings” that we become known for among our friends and families. You know, the funny things we always do and say that make us unique. Julianne is no exception to this. She too has her quirky sayings and unique terms. I am going to refer to them as Julianneisms.
This is Part 1 of the Julianneisms posts, focusing on her words, comments and quips. I even went to my children for input, since they may have Julianneisms in their minds that may not have been in mine.
I hope those of you reading this will enjoy a few of these fun Julianneisms.
Sushi with red tobiko on top. Her favorite part of sushi!
I will start off with a story about “tobiko,” the little fish eggs (or roe) that are often added to the top of servings of sushi. Julianne first experienced tobiko when we were living in Japan in the late 1980s. This led to a famed Julianneism that kind of goes like this:
“I love these little eggs, because sometimes they get caught in my teeth and then I’ll have a snack for later.”
I think she has trademarked her Julianneism.
When Julianne makes comments like this, she has a unique laugh that goes along with the comment…it is her “that was a good one” laugh. She had one of these “good one” laughs a few years back. I was getting into bed and I like the sheets loose. She likes them tucked in tightly. On this particular occasion, I was struggling with getting the sheet pulled out. I grunted and said something about the sheets being stuck. Her response (and then “good one” laugh) was:
Taco head for National Taco Day at Chuy’s (for free food)… That was her idea. Other thoughts got the old “THAT’S an idea” from her.
When Julianne has ideas that she considers to be good ideas, she pretty much doesn’t budge. At the same time, if she hears ideas from me or our children that may not meet her expectations she always replies:
“THAT’S an idea.”
You really don’t want to hear that from her, as it really means, “That’s not a very good idea.”
You can see Seth gets scared when Julianne threatens to spank his bottom.
Never one to mince her words, if she considers her children naughty, even for the smallest infraction (and, for that matter, non-infractions) she would say:
“Should I spank your bottom? You are not too old for me to spank your bottom!.”
Now imagine her spanking her 31 year old Seth’s bottom — he is 6’6″ and some 400+ pounds.
And then, when she commences with spanking, she says:
“Spank that bottom! Spank it hard! Spank that little tub of lard! Spank it hard! Spank it fast! Spank that boy right on the ask me no more questions and I’ll tell you more no lies…”
Throughout our 40 years together, Julianne has also coined a number of new words. Here is the beginnings of the Julianneism Dictionary.
She may be strong on her whole foods plant based regimen, but chips are too yummiferous to pass up
When she finds food that she really loves, she refers to it as “yummiferous.” A Mix of Yummy and For Us… there are foods or dishes that are yummiferous. I believe that she refers to her steamed kale and pineapple for breakfast as yummiferous.
A Yuckified face — grandson Rockwell
On the other end of the spectrum is the word “yuckified.” This term has many contextual uses. If she is sick, she feels yuckified. Food can go bad and become yuckified. Furniture can get dirty and be yuckified.
From a happy face (R) to a funkified face (L)
Julianne’s hair has become funkified after the wind blew through it on a recent boat ride.
Along the same lines as “yuckified,” is her term “funkified.” This refers to something, usually food, that has become thoroughly unappetizing, disgusting, or repugnant. It can also refer to something out of whack…let’s say maybe a toilet seat that has become unscrewed. From the derivitive FUNKY, the item has gone from being good to becoming funkified. I think the best one is her complaints that her hair is “funkified” on certain days.
Julianne with her “No-uh” face
Ofttimes, the kids may accuse Julianne of something…whether it was a “fluff” or whether she was “notoriously” cheating at a game, she always has a pat response:
This is her version “No Sir” or “Uh-uh” (not to be confused with Uh-Huh – which means agreement).
Julianne’s Siri has trouble understanding her many times.
There are many others that I could probably include herein. But, in closing, even her “Auto Correct” on her iPhone has trouble dealing with her. Many times when I go to pick her up from work, I get the following from her via text aftr sending her a text saying “I’m here.” Her response?
“OK. I have to go puddle and then I’ll be right out.”
I have never understood what she is doing…. Odd…..
In my previous post I wrote about Julianne the biker. She loves being outdoors and enjoying nature. Biking is an activity I can easily do with her. But, in recent years, due to knee issues, taking nice nature hikes with Julianne is a bit more difficult. But that doesn’t stop her as she will go with daughters, grandchildren and often even solo on hikes. Where possible, when the hikes are “easy” (meaning not too many hills, etc.), I try to join her. But, she is happy when she is out there, even on her own.
Hiking is something that we have done throughout our marriage. I was never brought up in the camping tradition, and so I have not been a very good camper. But, hiking was something I did with my dad and Julianne also did a lot of hiking. As our children grew, we would take them on hikes.
Julianne and David with first daughter Amaree on a winter hike near the San Francisco Peaks, Flagstaff, AZ 1980
After we arrived in Japan in the late 1980s, we were afforded the opportunity to take many hikes. There are many antiquities, old statues and beautiful nature hikes in Japan. We took advantage of these.
Julianne and David with children on a hike to the Usuki Magaibutsu in Oita Prefecture, Japan 1988
We continued on hikes into the 1990s. After Amaree was married, we all went to Montana and did a few fun hikes there. We enjoyed seeking out a nice waterfall with children and grandchildren.
David and Julianne with Grandson Kade at a waterfall in Montana
David and Julianne hiked to a waterfall near Juneau, Alaska
Of course, the hiking has continued, even as recently as May 2019. Here are more shots of Julianne on hikes…enjoying nature, time with children and grandchildren and the great outdoors.
Julianne getting ready to hike the Double Arch Trail in Red River Gorge.
Hiking with grandkids in Watkins Glen, NY
Hiking in West Virginia with a view of the New River Gorge Bridge in the background.
Hiking a trail with granddaughter Autumn
A small hike in Glacier National Park in 2005 with son Seth and a friend of Amaree’s
Hiking with the Noe grandkids in Kentucky
Julianne loves hiking in the Red River Gorge in Kentucky
Julianne and David on a short hike at Letchworth State Park in New York